Hello my lovely readers! Guess what? My birthday is today! (July 30th) Yay! Although I'm kind of sad that I won't be a teenager anymore, I feel a bit like a grown up. :P
Anyways, for the next couple of weeks, the topic of my blogs with be relationships. For those of you who are single, whether you like or hate it, don't worry. There's stuff for everyone. For today, there's somewhat comedic tips for men. Next, tips for women. Because let's face it, sometimes the opposite sex is freaking confusing.
After that, I will be posting oodles and oodles of date ideas that can double as hang out ideas with friends. I would love to get feedback from you guys; you can contact me on www.myspace.com/thedailykricket. Enjoy!
Things every man should know:
Unless you always do, your girlfriend is not going to kill you for canceling on her. Crap happens. But dude, have the decency to let her know BEFORE she wastes an hour shaving her legs and whatnot. And actually let her know if you can't make it, even if it's just a small activity.
There's a line with P.D.A.. It also depends on the girl. Just because your last girlfriend liked to make out in public, doesn't mean your current girlfriend wants a tongue bath. But it shouldn't kill you to give her a quick kiss goodbye either. She's your girlfriend, not your sister!
Calling and texting her every so often, dude you'd better! We're female, we want to know what's going on in your life. You have to be able to communicate if you want your relationship to last. Calling and texting every ten minutes? Chill out! It's not that crucial. If she's hanging out with her friends ten minutes ago, chances are she's still with them.
Take turns. She shouldn't always be forced to make the plans, and neither should you. If she came to your house last time, next time go to hers. That way nobody ends up feeling like they're the only one putting in the effort. Plus, it's nice to have a change in plans every so often.
Soap is sexy. Smelling your stank from the next room is NOT. I know most guys grow out of that stage by the time they graduate, but in case you haven't, please shower. If you need help, your girlfriend might join you :)
If you're going to cheat, have the decency to dump your girlfriend first. Seriously. Yea, getting dumped hurts. But it hurts a lot worse to find out the man you fell in love with is nothing but a lying skeeze. A lot of times in relationships, if there is an issue, people start looking for "greener pastures," instead of solving their problems. Please take the time to talk things out, it's worth it.
Chicks have bodily functions too. Don't run away screaming. Chances are, she's considerably more mortified than you will ever be. And yes, it's okay to pretend you didn't hear it. :P
Chivalry is NOT dead. Open doors for women, whether they're your girlfriend or your grandma. Seriously, it's just polite. And you totally score brownie points with your girlfriend when you help little old ladies cross the street. The small things in relationships are the ones that matter. And those things are what your girlfriend is going to remember and appreciate you for.
Take your woman on a date at least once a month. The pre-declared kind where you pay and where you pick her up. Take her somewhere nice and make her feel special. You don't have to empty out your wallet, but do put some thought into it. Seriously, women appreciate it when their man makes an effort. I know I did.
Enough with the hot and cold! Either you like her or you don't. If you just want to play the field, be upfront with your intentions. Don't play games. If you have a girlfriend, treat her well!!! Trust me, that works so much better in the long run.
Don't let yourself be belittled. Every so often, a man ends up with a woman who says demeaning things, either on accident or on purpose. You don't deserve that, no one does. Speak up. You deserve someone who makes you feel just as amazing as you are. Just remember, it goes both ways. You need to treat your girlfriend with respect too.It's not okay to put anyone down.
I hope you guys got some insight as well as a few giggles by reading that. There will be more to come!
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